I KNOW WHAT IT'S LIKE TO BE BROKEN.
AND I KNOW THE WAY BACK.

Born into chaos. My father was murdered by my stepmother before my third birthday. Stabbed near the heart with a bread knife. He died in the ambulance.

What followed was a childhood of instability:
→ Eight different homes before age ten
→ Physical abuse that hospitalized me
→ Separated from my brothers
→ Six years of sexual abuse by a foster father

By age ten, I'd learned to adapt. To perform. To survive by becoming whatever people needed me to be.
I became a chameleon. A secret agent in my own life.

This skill would later serve me in business. In relationships. In building things.
But first, it nearly destroyed me.

THE TURNING POINT

At five years old, something unexpected happened.

I learned my stepmother had been sectioned to a mental hospital. Not prison. A hospital.

And something shifted.

I'd spent years fantasising about revenge. A young bou planning how I'd kill her. The type of gun I'd use. A western revolver.

But learning she was suffering from mental illness changed everything.

For the first time, I felt empathy.
For the first time, I understood pain creates pain.
For the first time, I forgave.

And all the anger melted away.

That moment taught me something I wouldn't understand until decades later:
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Forgiveness isn't about them. It's about freeing yourself

THE EDUCATION

Eventually, I found stability with a family who showed me a different way of being.
The Willises taught me something radical: life doesn't have to be crisis.
I lost my Brummie accent.
I changed my aspirations.
I realized I wasn't fundamentally different from anyone else.
I'd just had a harder start.

This realization changed everything.

I went on to build a successful tech career. Founded companies. Led teams.
But something was still missing.

I was functioning. But I wasn't feeling.
I was achieving. But I wasn't alive.

THE BREAKTHROUGH

In 2017, I discovered breathwork.

Within minutes, I accessed emotions I'd been avoiding for decades.
Grief. Rage. Joy. Aliveness.

It wasn't therapy. It wasn't thinking.
It was direct experience. Body-based. Immediate.

For the first time since childhood, I felt safe enough to feel.That single session changed the trajectory of my life.

I dove deep:
→ 500+ hours of breathwork training
→ Sacred Sexuality Training
→ Plant medicine ceremonies with master teachers
→ Somatic practices and trauma-informed methodologies
→ Years of men's work and brotherhood building

Not because I wanted to become a facilitator.
Because I needed to heal.

THE WORK

What started as personal exploration became my life's work.

I began creating containers where others could safely explore their own depths.
Where people could drop the masks and reconnect with what's real.

Today, I guide:
→ Private breathwork sessions for deep personal work
→ Brothers in Breath circles for men seeking genuine connection
→ Immersive retreats combining multiple modalities
→ Sacred sexuality work for advanced practitioners

I don't just teach from books or theory.
I teach from lived experience.

Every tool I share, I've tested on myself.
Every practice I guide, I've walked personally.
Every transformation I witness, I've lived some version of.

THE TRUTH

Here's what I know for certain:

You are more durable than you think

‍The challenges that nearly break you often create your greatest strengths.

My childhood taught me to read people. To stay calm in crisis. To adapt quickly.
These same traits that helped me survive now help me hold space for others.

Your wounds aren't weaknesses.
They're the cracks where the light gets in.

THE INVITATION

I'm not here to fix you.
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Because you're not broken.I'm here to help you access what's already inside you:
The wisdom. The power. The truth you've been avoiding.

Through breath. Through embodiment. Through presence.

This isn't about becoming someone new.
It's about remembering who you've always been.

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